Thread: Lets try it again "shall we?" -> I AM NOT A LIAR

SGS :

I am honestly shocked at SGS's response to me. I was only trying to break the ice around here and get members to post their views.. or post it for them.

Why she thought i was saying something about here, when i generalized it for all is beyond my understanding ( see my first post, what she reacted to in this thread). I don't understand her way of crying loud...

"I LOVED THIS FORUM!!" If i will twist things as you did, then i can also say it this way. So why dont you love this forum anymore? Due to changes!?

Even you will have to follow our TOS! TO THE POINT AS EVERY ONE ELSE.
YOU ARE NO EXCEPTION HERE... AND WHEN I ASK FOR MEMBERS VIEW's YOU WILL HAVE TO TAKE WHAT THEY POST AND UNDERSTAND ON THIS CLUB!...

I can bring 10000 people inn here to praise my posts " for the type of thread you last posted" in the next 24h. Is this a competition between you or anyone? This is not about thinking that i have attacked anyone in particular, but i try to bring both sides together...

All i am looking for is a way out of this mess, and if this is going to be/deliberately be miss uderstood by her or anyone else, then we have a big problem around here.

WHat i should have done or not done bla bla could be discussed many times over. But at least sgs you should look at what i am trying to do on this forum to get to a conclusion that suits us all....

I hope you are adult enough, and will come in here to solve the matters when you find the time. I know you have had some issues to solve at home, so i dont expect you to be online soo soon.. But the solution we will look for and agree on will also have to apply to YOU like anyone else...

I have always reached you a friendly hand. Now its up to you to either grab my hand and help solve this in the best interest of all members here, or you can keep posting the posts like you did with "I am not a liar" Which eventually all be removed by ME! and how far have we come then to a solution??? you tell me..

Yes, i can be hard tword the type of outcry you had, and do not want to see any more of that.

Your most welcome to keep posting here like anyone as much you want, and feel like home. Difference now will be that you will also have to abide by the same rules like anyone..

If this is something that will not fit, then your free to go anywhere you please. On this forum there is only one. RC rules...

Regards

Admin

Originally Posted by RfxLady

I will give this a stab. Closing the forum wont fix the problem IMHO. I keep reading that we are all adults - well we don't all act like it. Yes, the mods might have caught it sooner and stopped it but they didn't. How can we as individuals now help. . . .perhaps if we see someone being offensive, we could copy their post in a PM to one of the mods and let them handle it. Afterall, they can't be everywhere. We can all become responsible for each other. We can also not respond to the offensive post which whould be adding fuel to the fire. We have been told over and over, don't go to the rumor section if you don't like rumors and leave those alone who do. There are no truths to rumors until the rumor comes true. We all are entitled to have an opinion but not to say ours is better than someones elses.
We are ALL guests on this forum at the behest of Marek. I was taught that when you went to play ball at someone elses field you played by their rules. This is his forum, his rules. We should all respect and abide by them. He is within his rights to remove anyone who breaks the rules and we expect him to apply the rules even handedly. The same goes for the mods in the application of the rules. None of us are perfect and mistakes have been made by members and mods. Marek has worked hard to clean up the forum, ridding it of those who were blatant in their behavior. Every large group has small groups within it made up of those who think similarly. There is nothing wrong with having those groups - just don't throw you weight around and start "a war of words and ugliness".
Ok, I guess that is it. Let's all play by the rules of this forum.

Great post. Marek has provided us this forum to learn, read and provide information on an investment that we all are in together so to speak. Everyone has their thoughts, opinions, and guesses on how this will all play out. We must all agree to disagree at times. I think as members of this forum we can help the mods and admins keep this a great forum. If you have an issue send a PM to them. If the TOS are being violated then a warning/ban will come into play.

Thanks again RFXLady.

Should this be an accusation then let it be..
I am begining to think that the "group, cult and mob leaders" around here are not interested in finding a solution to be honest.

If we think hard enough, then that might be due to the fact that they think they will lose a lot of their say... If thats the case, then LOL...

Still here things WILL change.. Let it be clear to you all, IT WILL, it has already started to be honest with you all.

admin

Thank you for your side of the observation RfxLady. Sometimes, a MOD as we should have known, is just another human being...not trained from a Police Academy to deal with civil unrest in Forums...but just another trying to help moderate with a sense of goodwill to all on either side.

It is tough for them when faced with two titans of either rumor and to decide, which is the wiser and still try his utter best not to spoil the fun...This is a Forum remember?

Any of you following closely tonight on this heated thread on the issues we are airing out to improve the situation for a better ruling...please realize, sometimes trying to stop the other person in their track with a counter post is provocative and it leads to more aggro unfortunately.

Do the most sensible step if you feel there is cause to have the crazy poster stopped, is to PM ME, or any of the MODs and highlight the situation a little so we can understand your side of the picture too before any of us steps in and unknowingly be viewed as a one-sided bias handling/intervention.

Everything can be resolved in a peaceful manner but we need sensible co-operation too, thanks for heeding.

YB.

Originally Posted by YogiBrood

Thank you for your side of the observation RfxLady. Sometimes, a MOD as we should have known, is just another human being...not trained from a Police Academy to deal with civil unrest in Forums...but just another trying to help moderate with a sense of goodwill to all on either side.

It is tough for them when faced with two titans of either rumor and to decide, which is the wiser and still try his utter best not to spoil the fun...This is a Forum remember?

Any of you following closely tonight on this heated thread on the issues we are airing out to improve the situation for a better ruling...please realize, sometimes trying to stop the other person in their track with a counter post is provocative and it leads to more aggro unfortunately.

Do the most sensible step if you feel there is cause to have the crazy poster stopped, is to PM ME, or any of the MODs and highlight the situation a little so we can understand your side of the picture too before any of s steps in and unknowingly be viewed as a one-sided bias handling/intervention.

Everything can be resolved in a peaceful manner but we need sensible co-operation too, thanks for heeding.

YB.

Admin, Thank you for putting what i wanted to say in perspective. ...

Admin

There might be one solution to this all.

WE GIVE SGS's & RR and anyother GROUP a SECOND RUMOR SECTION forum folder, WITH A SPECIAL PASSWORD SET BY their leaders, SO THAT THEY CAN GO ON WITH THE SORT OF POSTING THEY LIKE...

ONLY THEIR GROUPS TRUSTED MEMBERS WILL THEN BE LET INN TO SHARE THE NEW RUMORS THAT ARE OUT.. THIS WILL STOP THOSE THAT DON'T LIKE THE RUMOR POSTS.. If anyone as much as copy paste any sections of that news on the rest of rc forum, then you have just qualified for a ban.

BUT ITS NOT A REAL SOLUTION, I WOULD SAY, its an option.. This still does not stop the clashes on MOB vs CULT!
You guys let me know.

admin

Originally Posted by Admin

There might be one solution to this all.

WE GIVE SGS's & RR and anyother GROUP a SECOND RUMOR SECTION forum folder, WITH A SPECIAL PASSWORD SET BY their leaders, SO THAT THEY CAN GO ON WITH THE SORT OF POSTING THEY LIKE...

ONLY THEIR GROUPS TRUSTED MEMBERS WILL THEN BE LET INN TO SHARE THE NEW RUMORS THAT ARE OUT.. THIS WILL STOP THOSE THAT DON'T LIKE THE RUMOR POSTS.. If anyone as much as copy paste any sections of that news on the rest of rc forum, then you have just qualified for a ban.

BUT ITS NOT A REAL SOLUTION, I WOULD SAY, its an option.. This still does not stop the clashes on MOB vs CULT!
You guys let me know.

admin

i like the password idea. We can call it the Happy Hour Lounge. Serving free virtual beverages as well.

That is an easy way out serving one person for now and in no time, a resurgence of another sort will confront us...who knows..more fanatical....

NOPE...SGS is no exception as to any other wanting to have a share of being heard or making a choice, if & WHEN and with WHOM... to lend one's ears too and also, have the freedom to express, with respectability of course, one's opinion about it.

SGS has scored a nice goal by finding a supportive gathering...but she can do it elsewhere too...is that our concern? Is the Dinar borne out of SGS presence on this planet or just the opposite???

Our Forum will not be marginalized, which represents and serve the membership for one "special" person... she may in the future, heed better and serve well, both to her position and others observing, by being careful with her postings and "blown UP text" even to send a point through...it affected many, enough to resent however quietly they try to...

We will function as a Forum where all respect each other's presence and viewpoints...it is a simple and honest approach.


YB.

I don't think seperating people on this forum would be fair. The one's who are causing the problems need to grow up get a life and remember this is a rumor section, I for one got on this to see what the Dinars where going to do. If you split it up then it would cause some to not recieve all the info. true or false. I would like to be able to recieve all the info true or false, fact or fiction. I would not have joined if this was not so. IMHO Bill

I don't post very often as you can tell. I have not been a member for years and years either. I have lurked around quite a bit for about a 1 1/2 years. I have reads thousands of posts and interactions between members. So I must say with confidence that I think this has not only been blown out of proportion but it is also quite ridiculous.