Thread: A Possible Dinar Gang Marriage..

Originally Posted by snottynose

For anyone who would like to share how they met their spouses or anyone who has a story...feel free to share!!!Rob and i will gladly except any advise,wisdom..that many of you may have!!!Maybe some of you had some challenging times..would love to hear how you made it through!!!
Share with us.... your stories!!!!!!!!!
Thanks,
Sarah!!

Ditto to what my sweet one said!!!!

That is really cood CD, I love to hear stories of couples who have been through tough times and are still holding onto one another!!! Praise Jesus for his endering mercy, and I claim the same for me and my snottynose!!!

You are right. thanks. Truly, God has gotten me to the place that HE has to be everything to me...and has given me the grace to get through some rough times.

Originally Posted by snottynose

I myself was in a very rough marriage before,i was married to an alcholoic and it was a very bad relationship..not to mention i was living a christian life and he refused and things got really bad...i prayed for my marriage to last..but things got worse and infedility became a big problem..it was at that point i made a decision to walk away...that was probably the most wise decision i made...i felt so free and at peace..and knew god would take care of me and the kids and he has...I raised my kids alone and worked..thank goodness for grandma's like sassy she has been such a help!!Of course it's not fun being alone and children without a real father..so i really began to seek god for a companion and he came through for me by bringing rob to me!!
I am so blessed to have him in my life and taking on the role as father say's alot about him!!I have 4 kids of my own and he has 3 so it will be challenging for the both of us but i believe we will be great!!!

that is cool. I'm sorry you had to walk through those doors and get out on your own, and that there was infidelity involved. It's not fun being in a marriage and feeling more alone than if you were single. That's where I have been. God is faithful...things will only get better for us. I have shared that with a single friend of mine who has been waiting (she's 37) for the right guy. That kind of lonliness PALES in comparison to the lonliness you feel inside of a marriage. It is NOT FUN. BUT, WITHOUT MY RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD, I'd have been out of here and so would he long ago. No infidelity going on...just major trials.

Perhaps having money in the near future and removing that burden off of us (financial) things may improve ...i know money does not bring happiness. I'm not saying that is what I'm counting on. God CAN bring happiness. BUT, having the burden of debt and not having to work, working becuase you want to not because you have to....being able to relax and enjoy life more...that's what I'm talking about.
Be blessed!

Originally Posted by snottynose

For anyone who would like to share how they met their spouses or anyone who has a story...feel free to share!!!Rob and i will gladly except any advise,wisdom..that many of you may have!!!Maybe some of you had some challenging times..would love to hear how you made it through!!!
Share with us.... your stories!!!!!!!!!
Thanks,
Sarah!!

I'm writing a book. Perhaps I'll have money to get it published one day whenever it is finished. You can read it and see many of my stories in there!!! I'll keep you all informed if it ever gets finished!

Originally Posted by cooldolphins

You are right. thanks. Truly, God has gotten me to the place that HE has to be everything to me...and has given me the grace to get through some rough times.

that is cool. I'm sorry you had to walk through those doors and get out on your own, and that there was infidelity involved. It's not fun being in a marriage and feeling more alone than if you were single. That's where I have been. God is faithful...things will only get better for us. I have shared that with a single friend of mine who has been waiting (she's 37) for the right guy. That kind of lonliness PALES in comparison to the lonliness you feel inside of a marriage. It is NOT FUN. BUT, WITHOUT MY RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD, I'd have been out of here and so would he long ago. No infidelity going on...just major trials.

Perhaps having money in the near future and removing that burden off of us (financial) things may improve ...i know money does not bring happiness. I'm not saying that is what I'm counting on. God CAN bring happiness. BUT, having the burden of debt and not having to work, working becuase you want to not because you have to....being able to relax and enjoy life more...that's what I'm talking about.
Be blessed!

Yes i myself would be a little more at ease with the rv too!!But it is not my source of joy or life it is my savior!!!Tell your friend to wait on the lord and i promise he will send him or her that special someone!!!I can honestly say that because he has answered my prayer!!!!God bless you cooldolphins!!!
Sarah!!

Originally Posted by cooldolphins

I'm writing a book. Perhaps I'll have money to get it published one day whenever it is finished. You can read it and see many of my stories in there!!! I'll keep you all informed if it ever gets finished!

I can't wait to read it!!!!

Originally Posted by rvalreadydang

This is actually very exciting! Me and hubby were engaged after two months of dating and married that fall, this year we celebrate our 21st anniversary......I wish you all the best sincerely, and really hope if we can't be there for the nuptials, that we can see lots of pics!!!

I love it when people share their stories..it is wonderful that you have spent 21yrs together..can't wait to be able to say that myself!!!
Sarah!!

Originally Posted by snottynose

For anyone who would like to share how they met their spouses or anyone who has a story...feel free to share!!!Rob and i will gladly except any advise,wisdom..that many of you may have!!!Maybe some of you had some challenging times..would love to hear how you made it through!!!
Share with us.... your stories!!!!!!!!!
Thanks,
Sarah!!

I am so happy for both of you! The second time around is the best! It's been a dream come true. I couldn't have found a better man to laugh with, live with and love.

The last of 5 kids moves out this weekend and we will be alone for the first time in 11 years. Yes there have been some rough patches. There always is, with a combined family. But rest assured, it will all be worth it. If you are truly best friends, keep the focus on your relationship and what ya'll have to look forward to. You always come out stronger on the other side.
Those dern kids won't be there in 20 years wiping drool from your chin, your spouse will. There will be sacrafices that have to be made, grin and bear it! There are rewards. When you ask your spouse to do something, always, try to turn the situation around and ask yourself if you would do the same for them. Whether it has to do with the kids or finances or whatever. COMPROMISE! TALK! HONESTY! Can't live without them!

Good luck to you both! It will be wonderful!!

Originally Posted by TEXASGIRL

I am so happy for both of you! The second time around is the best! It's been a dream come true. I couldn't have found a better man to laugh with, live with and love.

The last of 5 kids moves out this weekend and we will be alone for the first time in 11 years. Yes there have been some rough patches. There always is, with a combined family. But rest assured, it will all be worth it. If you are truly best friends, keep the focus on your relationship and what ya'll have to look forward to. You always come out stronger on the other side.
Those dern kids won't be there in 20 years wiping drool from your chin, your spouse will. There will be sacrafices that have to be made, grin and bear it! There are rewards. When you ask your spouse to do something, always, try to turn the situation around and ask yourself if you would do the same for them. Whether it has to do with the kids or finances or whatever. COMPROMISE! TALK! HONESTY! Can't live without them!

Good luck to you both! It will be wonderful!!

Thanks for sharing!!!!We will be happy..and your right it is going to be wonderful!!
Sarah!!

Originally Posted by snottynose

Thanks for sharing!!!!We will be happy..and your right it is going to be wonderful!!
Sarah!!

You're welcome

Damn SN...

you go girl,

you got you a genuine cowboy......

get hitched now, and have the reception in the Caymens....when it RV's I'll have some time and money to help you celebrate....

congrads....and tell your sister shes got a date...Bill