Thread: Level of STRESS

I am a mother of children myself, AND I work in a field that few here would dare to comprehend much less understand. Pips is at a cross-roads and I don't care to be dragged on the tracks any longer. I TRUsted Bryan and it seems I was wrong for doing so. I am waiting, diligently and hopefully to be wrong on all of this. However, practicality cannot be discounted, and i am heartbroken at what I see.

Go get em, Mouse!

Originally Posted by second mouse

please excuse my rant.... but there are soo many unpleasant posters on lately this forum lately.... that it tends to be a little frustrating.

Exactly.....................but do you see Bryan Marsden ANYWHERE even attempting to calm things down? Hell no you dont. He enjoys this little "puppet master" game he is playing.

Originally Posted by Style

Exactly.....................but do you see Bryan Marsden ANYWHERE even attempting to calm things down? Hell no you dont. He enjoys this little "puppet master" game he is playing.

make sure your own steps are clean before you worry about someone elses.
Bryan's actions are out of your control... your's are not.

I'm sorry, but I spent a large portion of the day with children that had NOTHING... not even family. They are basically institutionalized... people come in shifts and get paid to show them affection..... and then we all get to go home.... HOME.... to our families...

are we so badly off that we have the right to whine about anything here?!
Forget coming here to where I am, and slapping me around and belittling me.... if anyones angry and wants a challenge.. come! .... and see what I will show you.....
you will quit whinning once you see.

now where's that crying smiley...

I dont want to see it SM. I have no doubts that it is horrible. I pray for for this very sort of thing and those kids every night. But just as you say Bryans actions are out of my control, so is that. But my heart breaks for them.........you can choose to believe that or not.

Now...........no we are NOT that bad off, we have our health, we have our families, we have a roof over our heads, we have food on our tables and we have our God. SO are you saying that we should just forget about Bryan and our money just because others have it worse than we do?
I think not. Just because some people have it worse than I do does NOT give Bryan the right to do what he is doing (or should I say NOT doing) I am sorry that dog wont hunt. (sorry LD) Someone recently broke into my brothers house while he was in Texas working for FEMA with the hurricane victims and stole almost everything he had. The people that did it were poor, (drug users stealing to get the money for their next fix) Now my brother made DAMN good money while in Texas...............so should he say "Aw let em have it and set em free" just because he has more than they do? I dont think so. I say cut their arms off right below their shoulders and then cut out their tongues so they cant even tell somebody else to steal for them.
I am sorry for those kids SM, but I wont excuse Marsdens actions just because I have a little more than some others. By that very same token there are MANY, MANY more that have VERY much more than I do.
This is NOT about those kids. This is about Bryan Marsdens actions.

Originally Posted by second mouse

make sure your own steps are clean before you worry about someone elses.
Bryan's actions are out of your control... your's are not.

I'm sorry, but I spent a large portion of the day with children that had NOTHING... not even family. They are basically institutionalized... people come in shifts and get paid to show them affection..... and then we all get to go home.... HOME.... to our families...

are we so badly off that we have the right to whine about anything here?!
Forget coming here to where I am, and slapping me around and belittling me.... if anyones angry and wants a challenge.. come! .... and see what I will show you.....
you will quit whinning once you see.

now where's that crying smiley...

Originally Posted by Style

I dont want to see it SM. I have no doubts that it is horrible. I pray for for this very sort if thing and those kids every night. But just as you say Bryans actions are out of my control, so is that. But my heart breaks for them.........you can choose to believe that or not.

Now...........no we are NOT that bad off, we have our health, we have our families, we have a roof over our heads, we have food on our tables and we have our God. SO are you saying that we should just forget about Bryan and our money just because others have it worse than we do?
I think not. Just because some people have it worse than I do does NOT give Bryan the right to do what he is doing (or should I say NOT doing) I am sorry that dog wont hunt. (sorry LD) Someone recently broke into my brothers house while he was in Texas working for FEMA with the hurricane victims and stole almost everything he had. The people that did it were poor, (drug users stealing to get the money for their next fix) Now my brother made DAMN good money while in Texas...............so should he say "Aw let em have it and set em free" just because he has more than they do? I dont think so. I say cut their arms off righ below their shoulders and then cut out their tongues so they cant even tell somebody else to steal for them.
I am sorry for those kids SM, but I wont excuse Marsdens actions just because I have a little more than some others. By that very same token there are MANY, MANY more that have VERY much more than I do.
This is NOT about those kids. This is about Bryan Marsdens actions.

no .... what I'm saying is...

quit whinning so loudly.... no one can hear the cries of the ones who really need help over the incessant whinning on this forum!!!

shame on us all!!!

I wonder what stress level those kids are at.......


I am not lucky, I am blessed.

Originally Posted by luckydog

I wonder what stress level those kids are at.......


I am not lucky, I am blessed.

let's see.... what did we learn about this on the forum today...?
oh yeah... too bad about those kids.... makes me feel sad... but the REAL issue here is Bryans an a** ....!!! ???

now THERE"S a dog that won't hunt!!!

and God bless us, everyone.

(sorry luckydog... for my ranting spilling over on your tender post. you are a blessing to me )

Well why dont you tell me just EXACTLY what you think I can do about those kids SM! Please............the floor is all yours. Tell me what I can do to fix it all for those kids!
What you are saying is that I should be ashamed of myself for wanting MY money from Bryan when there are kids out there with nothing. Thats exactly what you are saying. Well guilt trips dont work on me. I cant change the world. And you know what...........maybe, just maybe we COULD do something for those kids if we had our damn money from PIPS.

You are giving me hell over those kids and YOU are their social worker.........why dont YOU fix it for them and get off my back because I am not willing to just forget about Bryan just because there are those less fortunate than me. WHY do you protect Bryan so? Please answer this for me? You expect us to just say "aw thats ok Bryan............there are less fortunate than us so you go ahead and just keep our money and we will be just be thankful that we arent as bad off as some". Well not this ole boy honey.
I am sorry I cant live up to your expectations of how the world should be, but I just dont see how us just letting Bryan treat us like shit is going to help those kids.

Have you offered to take them home with you?

Originally Posted by second mouse

let's see.... what did we learn about this on the forum today...?
oh yeah... too bad about those kids.... makes me feel sad... but the REAL issue here is Bryans an a** ....!!! ???

now THERE"S a dog that won't hunt!!!

and God bless us, everyone.

(sorry luckydog... for my ranting spilling over on your tender post. you are a blessing to me )

Originally Posted by Style

Well why dont you tell me just EXACTLY what you think I can do about those kids SM! Please............the floor is all yours. Tell me what I can do to fix it all for those kids!
What you are saying is that I should be ashamed of myself for wanting MY money from Bryan when there are kids out there with nothing. Thats exactly what you are saying. Well guilt trips dont work on me. I cant change the world. And you know what...........maybe, just maybe we COULD do something for those kids if we had our damn money from PIPS.

You are giving me hell over those kids and YOU are their social worker.........why dont YOU fix it for them and get off my back because I am not willing to just forget about Bryan just because there are those less fortunate than me. WHY do you protect Bryan so? Please answer this for me? You expect us to just say "aw thats ok Bryan............there are less fortunate than us so you go ahead and just keep our money and we will be just be thankful that we arent as bad off as some". Well not this ole boy honey.

I've learned you are impervious to guilt.... and very uncompassionate.... it is all about 'style' for you.... what a pleasant way to live....

end of our conversations... I will waste no more time.... be as unkind as you like.