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[wilder]

Yes indeed Wacky. But being an artist I see beauty with my eyes and my heart. It doesn't mean that I always fall victim to the culturally acceptable 'beauty' but my visual sense is my most finely developed sense. I rely on it to give me insight before I use any other sense. My sight and my heart-sense work together instantly. You might think that pre-judging is a negative thing where I see it as a needed protective measure.
Always with love,
Kim

[wilder]

We must have been typing at the same moment... I didn't see your last post until after I posted. Nice to see you too (well nice to see your type anyway ;-) ) I'll bet Second Mouse is an adorable little rodent! I love rodents!

[Wacky]

That's real beauty. You know you're seeing it with your eyes when you listent to what your heart is saying about what you see.

Pre-judgement is not essentially bad, it's even something necessary, it's how one uses it and deals with the derived conclusions that may or may not be correct. If one keeps in mind that pre-judgement is just pre-judgement and not a conclusion determined by analysis, then I guess it's all fine.

I certainly see it as a bad (or rather sad) thing when one judges life or oneself void of beauty though.

For example, I like women with (just) a little bit of fat around tummy, butt & tighs. Unfortunately they wouldn't believe me if I said that to them because my idea is not conforming with the culturally implanted ideas of feminine beauty.

Sure, cultural idea of beauty (not just in the west) are most of the time fabrications created to encourage consumerism... it's the synthetic version of the beauty compound & it's the kind that never lasts!

Yes, we're typing at the same time. Guess what! That adorable rodent loves horses just like you do :-)

[wilder]

Cool! SM and I will have to have a horsey talk some day :-)

Back to the beauty thing though... when I was young and single I thought I could just as easily fall head over heels in love with a handsome pro baseball or football (soccer)player as the guy next door with a little beer paunch but I didn't happen to meet one! You know what happened? I fell for the guy next door because he was visually pleasing but I could read him with my heart-sense in a milisecond. Is that not a common event? Yes, indeed. And BTW we have been together for 24 years now...

[Wacky]

It's a very common occurence indeed. Back when I used to teach I used to meet lots of people and this was a common subject I discussed with over 4000 people.

It seems like many people realise who 'the one' is the first time they meet (or talk to) him/her.

Even my mother says that, and my parents have been married for 34 years now.

In my case... here's who I consider really beautiful, not just in apparence, she's got a great personality too, totally different from the characters she interprets in her acting career.

KRISTIN KREUK XXX

[wilder]

Yes Wacky, she is a beauty!!! Have you met her in person?

[orimax]

i need one like your gal.
Just if any get em ma contact.
orimax.

[Wacky]

Yes Wacky, she is a beauty!!! Have you met her in person?

Never in person yet... but it's a matter of time! There are many 'coincidences' leading me to her.

My 2 most respected forex teachers both live very near to her, (and actually sent her flowers on her birthday on my behalf... one of the flowers was artificial and there was a not saying that I will stop loving her once the last flower turns brown... isn't that sweet? was my idea!) and there are also 2 companies in the same city for whom I am writing some software & a storyline for a computer game.

I will be going there on business later this year, probably next May, and I hope I will have a chance to meet her in person. Especially now that she's single again. I wish her lots of joy but hope she stays single until she hears one of my intriguing picup lines!

orimax... sorry, I saw her first!

[YogiBrood]

Hey wacky... When you do get that far, right up to her front door or Beverly type electric gate, I wish you well and she activating the switch to let ya in...she's sweet too from this pic....Goodluck, opportunity knocks only once...

YB.

[wilder]

Very cool! So what pickup lines are you thinking of using? Do tell! :-)

Never in person yet... but it's a matter of time! There are many 'coincidences' leading me to her.

My 2 most respected forex teachers both live very near to her, (and actually sent her flowers on her birthday on my behalf... one of the flowers was artificial and there was a not saying that I will stop loving her once the last flower turns brown... isn't that sweet? was my idea!) and there are also 2 companies in the same city for whom I am writing some software & a storyline for a computer game.

I will be going there on business later this year, probably next May, and I hope I will have a chance to meet her in person. Especially now that she's single again. I wish her lots of joy but hope she stays single until she hears one of my intriguing picup lines!

orimax... sorry, I saw her first!