and I apologize to you as well if I have offended you in any wayQuote:
Originally Posted by everwiser
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and I apologize to you as well if I have offended you in any wayQuote:
Originally Posted by everwiser
Fair 'nuf! I think we're supposed to drink now... :beer:Quote:
Originally Posted by Style
Well then here is a double Crown N' Coke courtesy of "Style"
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Group hug!!!!!!!! Sorry I just couldn't resist.
LOL Agree!
Hi Style
Are you sure you would like me to answer your question? :wink: Well you asked for it :ro_emote: You have to be brave to ask me questions like that! :smile: Here we gooo… :flame:
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Originally Posted by second mouse
Wheater you like it or not, Second Mouse happends to be a very wise woman. She has posted a lot of good posts here on Rolclub.Quote:
Originally Posted by second mouse
Well Style, this Tread didn't start as an "e-gold/Pips Programs" Tread at all. We where really talking about the BIG PICTURE concerning money. Please look at my post nr 1 and nr 12 (page 2) in this tread.Quote:
Originally Posted by Style
Your first post did also hit me in my stomach, just like Second Mouse. I understand her very well. She wasn't talking only of this post and your facts, but your attitude in general. Wich you are explaining very well in the Quote above.
Your post was a bit off topic, even though it was an answer to ole_mats. We where discussing possabilities, attitude, how to handle money. How to help and protect Pips in the future from ego, greedy and selfish people. Our minds where really on another "level". To me your post felt like a crash suddenly banging in, taking away focus from what this tread really is about.
Sometimes it is not the message which are wrong, it's not even the messenger, but how we introduce our message. Please allow me to give you these symbolic pictures:
1. Someones having a party, nice dresses, nice music in the background, people are friendly, talking, relaxing and laughing. A"bull" want to tell these people something, and he suddenly crashes into the room. Instead of listening he scares off all the people instead.
2. Same party, but a "big dog" wanted to tell these people something. The dog is happy! Nice people! But he breaks the glases, step on the womens toes and makes the dresses dirty. Do they want to listen to him, even though he is innocent and really kind? No.
What I try to tell you: It isn't always wrong what you try to tell, but too often you have been a bit like this "bull" and the "big dog". You wanted to make us listen, you wanted to be part of the club/party. But suddenly something went wrong. And you felt you ended up outside alone, defending the "other part/side" of the Pips storyMicky talkes about being neutral positive. I like that word. As a neutral person you can se both sides of the Pips story, but still choose to be positive, find solutions, encourgage people, don't give up, se the possabilities etc. Sometimes when you post I feel you are negative, and my ears are clooosing.......Quote:
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If you don't want to be negative, if you want people to se the other part of the story, why don't start to post and think like your eagle? It's an eagle in your picture right? An eagle is a wise and strong bird. The eagle can both choose to focus on a little detail to catch it, and at the same time have the big overview, from his mountain/nest.
Why don't give it a try and change your attitude a bit? I don't mind listen to a strong eagle, not at all! :thumbsup:
I want to se your smile, Style :smile:
This is a bit ironic.......LOL.......but not long before you posted this, I changed my avatar from the eagle to a "Big Black TimberWolf"..........LOL.........
I understand what you are saying and I agree to a certain extent..... and I only have one comment.........."When I was getting banned from a LOT of the other forums for defending Bryan, I was everybodys friend here. My PM box stayed full from people giving me a "cyber high five" and "attaboys" and man I was just great..................but now that I have stepped back and taken my blinders off and looked at the whole situation through "open" eyes..............I am suddenly the enemy..............that is WRONG. I am still the same person I was...............I am just not blind folded anymore. This tells me that JUST MAYBE the change in peoples attitude towards me isnt all my fault. Just maybe the members that are attacking me now should "open" their minds and their eyes up a bit as well. I have been banned from many forums defending Bryan and I have received threatening PM's and emails also for doing so.............what did that get me? So I started to look at this from all sides and decided that just "maybe" what a lot of the others are saying could be true. Now I am a bad person?
Wouldnt you rather deal with someone that is truthful and tells you what they are really thinking instead of someone that tells you only what you want to hear...........? I most certainly would. In my opinion the world would be a better place if there were more people like me in it. (I am not being cocky either)....I am referring to the straight forward honesty and saying what they feel................I just dont have the time nor the patience to play games with people.............I say what I mean and I mean what I say............life is just so much simpler that way. I may not always say the popular things or even in a "politically correct" manner.......but rest assured...........you know where you stand with me, I dont play games. You see, I feel that too many people spend too much of their lives trying to be "politically correct" and trying to say and do the "popular" things and in the process they forget who they really are.
Thank you for your reply to me............I sincerely appreciate your honesty!!:bow:
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Is it nice to bring up closed matters - nanni?
Well, I got a PM from Style, where he said (concerning the post above): "There is nothing that I appreciate more than pure honesty........(except maybe a double Crown N' Coke......LOL).." Style want me to be honest and tell what I feel. So it can't be that bad at all. We are ok. :smile:
But thank you for your concern. I wouldn't have written it at all, if I didn't new Style would be strong enough to handle my personal and honest opinion.
BUT when that said: You are PERFECTLY RIGHT. It is closed. And my reson for doing all this was to answer his question (wise or not), sort out things and go back to the real and original topic in this Tread.
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Yes Nanni.....we are perfectly OK....:ro_emote: