Thread: all he needs is love

Hi family.

Think about doing everything possible in achieving the
best cercumstances possible for your family.
Your reward is critisisme from your partner.
How would you feel?
You would feel dissapointed and angry and say:
"I did everything possible to make you happy" and you
would slem the door and get drunk.
Are you só great in communicate with your partner?
Are you só great in telling how it stands down the line?
Are you só great in sharing feelings?
Communication is one of the worlds largest problem.
It is a problem that accist for 150000 years.
All those years we have been staring in the fire and
making plan for tomorrows hunt and were irritated,
when our wives wanted to talk.
The wives had to talk with eachother in other to feel safe,
because we were never there to comfort them.
We still staring in the fire by watching TV and are highly
irritated, when our wives are talking.
Only when we hear "money", it starts clicking in our minds.
I have never heart from a man at work, that he wants to
go home to see his beautiful wife.
He always needed to do something and could talk hours about his beautiful car, but never about his wife.

Brain is disappointed and angry, because some members
of the family are letting him down.
He is clever enough to know, that 99.5% of his family
loves him for what he stands for and works for.
Allow him his moment of anger, because he needs that too.
Communication starts were people show eachother their
feelings and only in feelings we show eachother love.
You are not communicating with your wife by phoning
around the world to get comfirmed, what you already
knew, because your wife told you that in the first place.
She would stapped in her back, let down by you.
Brain feels the same, so allow him to come to himself.

Brain is born British and son of a coolminer.
Visions of steel.
Like the Dutch, the British people do their work first and
than they have time to sosiolize.
"The best skipper always stands onshore", but they never
had any respect on the workfloor.
We do not like them, because we know they have not
clean up at their own frontdoor.
Do that first and than we talk, after the work is done
of course. I can asure you, never before.
Like I said, Brain is British and British people love to
come by for tea and a chat.

So Brain. I like to invite you for tea and a chat on behave of
99.5% of your family, but we do understand that you can
be late from work doing overtime. We will have that extra
cup standing ready for you, everyday.
If you cannot make it to tea-time, than we see you in the
pub and drink for God and country.

There is somebody else in distress and needs your love.
His name on the forum is Hachidan.
He is living in New Orleans and has lost everything during
the last storm and overfloating.
On top of that he will lose his life soon too, due to his
illness. He is very afraid for his daughters future.
If you planning to write something on the forum, keep
him in your thoughts and say something nice to him and his daughter.
Let him know that he and his daughter belong to a large
family and give them that feeling in:

YOUR NEVER WALK ALONE.

Thanks for your attention.
Dusano.

The real problem is not with Bryan... it's with us members.

Now I know many would prefere to ignore the truth and be in denial but for those of you who can face the harsh wake up call... here it is!

If you feel frustrated about the PIPS situation IT IS YOUR FAULT.

The pips website clearly stated that you shouldn't put any money you can't afford to lose.

Anyone who did accordingly shouldn't feel THIS frustrated for a sum you can afford to lose.

Frustration comes from gred or fear and the level of frustration here can only mean one thing of the following:

1) Some people invested in a program they could not afford investing in
2) Some people imediately placed lots more money than they could afford to lose because they got greedy
3) Some people started responsibly but then decided to get greedy (probably when they saw payments) some left their job, others bought bigger houses, more expensive cars or went on a spending spree.

Has anyone heard about the numerous people who end up in debt a couple of years after winning the lottery? who's fault is it? The same thing is happening here, and we don't want to blame ourselves. Brian is therefore our scapegoat.

Now this is coming from someone who DID put a sum that was huge... I did it last March and have got nothing back. I later lost a bigger sum on trading (Stocks) and ended up having more debt than cash in hands. I know what it means and how it feels to panic and how hard it is to sleep at night.

But I never blamed anyone for my situation, and the reason why some of us got out of 'the frustration state' was because we stopped blaming others and realised we were the only ones responsible for our individual feelings & situation.

Stop blaming Bryan... you are the only true master of your circumstances & feelings!

Very nice post dusano! And "Spot On" Wacky!

Wacky !!

One of the best post i have read at this forum..

Its was realy truth and GRRRREEAAT !!!

Tiiger

Originally Posted by Wacky

stopped blaming others and realised we were the only ones responsible for our individual feelings & situation.

Stop blaming Bryan... you are the only true master of your circumstances & feelings!

This is something that I just recently came to terms with. You are right, it is a much better feeling once I got to the point where I accepted this

Originally Posted by Wacky

If you feel frustrated about the PIPS situation IT IS YOUR FAULT.

The pips website clearly stated that you shouldn't put any money you can't afford to lose.

Anyone who did accordingly shouldn't feel THIS frustrated for a sum you can afford to lose.

Stop blaming Bryan... you are the only true master of your circumstances & feelings!

We just can't and it is outright incorrect to put it squarely on his shoulders... try running a biz and looking down from the TOP.... not referring to those 1-man business short-stops, but the responsibility is enormous to bear without a doubt!

However, one's endeavour is one's responsibility to bear the guilt if the mechanism start rockin resulting from circumstances that may be caused by different forces to the foundation... there are more legs than just Bryan's supporting it...so, remember there are others involved when pointing your finger at.

Fortunately, we are not in that uncomfortable situation as far as the financially footing is concern, but equally, we are disappointed in such failures that impedes our ability to prevent if we can but that was NOT anywhere apparent so, we have to accept some defeat for our part....and slinging it back at BM is not the way to go about it.

We are nonetheless, glad nothing of the worse overcame Bryan & Sharon, that's the grace we can shower them with our heartfelt sincerity to a couple that meant well with their vision in sharing with us, it is still a privilege to be considered that opportunity.

What does sucks.... is to know, of those "handshakes" and fakey outbursts by faces who embraced Bryan and Sharon and who later are the very hypocrites ready to stab their backs at the turn of the weather....

Thats the reality and saddening episode we now face.

YB.

Originally Posted by dusano

Communication is one of the worlds largest problem.
It is a problem that accist for 150000 years.
All those years we have been staring in the fire and
making plan for tomorrows hunt and were irritated,
when our wives wanted to talk.
The wives had to talk with eachother in other to feel safe,
because we were never there to comfort them.
We still staring in the fire by watching TV and are highly
irritated, when our wives are talking.
Only when we hear "money", it starts clicking in our minds.

Communication starts were people show eachother their
feelings and only in feelings we show eachother love.
You are not communicating with your wife by phoning
around the world to get comfirmed, what you already
knew, because your wife told you that in the first place.

Very good post Dusano

Originally Posted by Wacky

The real problem is not with Bryan... it's with us members.

I never blame anyone for my situation, and the reason why some of us got out of 'the frustration state' was because we stopped blaming others and realised we were the only ones responsible for our individual feelings & situation.

Stop blaming Bryan... you are the only true master of your circumstances & feelings!

Yepp Wacky. You are so right.

Originally Posted by dusano

There is somebody else in distress and needs your love.
His name on the forum is Hachidan.
He is living in New Orleans and has lost everything during
the last storm and overfloating.
On top of that he will lose his life soon too, due to his
illness. He is very afraid for his daughters future.
If you planning to write something on the forum, keep
him in your thoughts and say something nice to him and his daughter.
Let him know that he and his daughter belong to a large
family and give them that feeling in:

YOUR NEVER WALK ALONE.

Thanks for your attention.
Dusano.

Please send my love to Hachidan. Tell him to learn his daughter to have faith, love, to trust life and have inner peace in her heart, and she will attracts to herself people with the same kind of feelings. Tell him to learn his daughter to trust herself, listen to her intuition, gutfeeling and heart, and she will be abel to make the right decitions for her life.

Here are some more for you, "Love, inner peace and the life you want":
http://www.rolclub.com/showthread.ph...ed=1#post62081

Originally Posted by Wacky

The real problem is not with Bryan... it's with us members.

The pips website clearly stated that you shouldn't put any money you can't afford to lose.

Stop blaming Bryan... you are the only true master of your circumstances & feelings!

Yep I take responsibility for entrusting and believing in Bryan and his direct statement on same said website that "HE WOULD PAY 2% A DAY UNLESS THERE WAS A MARKET CRASH". Yep I take full responsibilty for foolishly believing that..... and just so you know I WILL never make the mistake of believing it again.....