Hi family.
Think about doing everything possible in achieving the
best cercumstances possible for your family.
Your reward is critisisme from your partner.
How would you feel?
You would feel dissapointed and angry and say:
"I did everything possible to make you happy" and you
would slem the door and get drunk.
Are you só great in communicate with your partner?
Are you só great in telling how it stands down the line?
Are you só great in sharing feelings?
Communication is one of the worlds largest problem.
It is a problem that accist for 150000 years.
All those years we have been staring in the fire and
making plan for tomorrows hunt and were irritated,
when our wives wanted to talk.
The wives had to talk with eachother in other to feel safe,
because we were never there to comfort them.
We still staring in the fire by watching TV and are highly
irritated, when our wives are talking.
Only when we hear "money", it starts clicking in our minds.
I have never heart from a man at work, that he wants to
go home to see his beautiful wife.
He always needed to do something and could talk hours about his beautiful car, but never about his wife.
Brain is disappointed and angry, because some members
of the family are letting him down.
He is clever enough to know, that 99.5% of his family
loves him for what he stands for and works for.
Allow him his moment of anger, because he needs that too.
Communication starts were people show eachother their
feelings and only in feelings we show eachother love.
You are not communicating with your wife by phoning
around the world to get comfirmed, what you already
knew, because your wife told you that in the first place.
She would stapped in her back, let down by you.
Brain feels the same, so allow him to come to himself.
Brain is born British and son of a coolminer.
Visions of steel.
Like the Dutch, the British people do their work first and
than they have time to sosiolize.
"The best skipper always stands onshore", but they never
had any respect on the workfloor.
We do not like them, because we know they have not
clean up at their own frontdoor.
Do that first and than we talk, after the work is done
of course. I can asure you, never before.
Like I said, Brain is British and British people love to
come by for tea and a chat.
So Brain. I like to invite you for tea and a chat on behave of
99.5% of your family, but we do understand that you can
be late from work doing overtime. We will have that extra
cup standing ready for you, everyday.
If you cannot make it to tea-time, than we see you in the
pub and drink for God and country.
There is somebody else in distress and needs your love.
His name on the forum is Hachidan.
He is living in New Orleans and has lost everything during
the last storm and overfloating.
On top of that he will lose his life soon too, due to his
illness. He is very afraid for his daughters future.
If you planning to write something on the forum, keep
him in your thoughts and say something nice to him and his daughter.
Let him know that he and his daughter belong to a large
family and give them that feeling in:
YOUR NEVER WALK ALONE.
Thanks for your attention.
Dusano.