Originally Posted by shredder
Sounds like you need to move on bro... just my opinion of course. But it really does no good at all to come in here and sling abuse at other pipsters... none at all actually.
If you act like its over and come in and see if there's any news then it doesn't bother you when there is none. I have moved on. I needed to. I lent a mid five figure amount and it was painful to watch nothing come back. So I had to move on to other paying ventures and I have made back most of my money. I also learned how to trade forex and I focused on making my business run better and it has, which also has given me higher returns.
I'm not saying its great to lose money, because of course its not. I have lost plenty, so I definitely know the feeling. But if you do nothing to move on from where you are, you give that feeling the power to control your life. It's the feeling of lost control that you really feel and you need to get it back. How you do that and how you go about it is up to you; only you know what it will take to give you back your control.
In the end, nothing is guaranteed no matter what. Take life one day at a time and enjoy it, no matter what is happening in it. And if you have frustration, take it out on things inanimate. That's how I started drumming, and I still use it today to vent. Or you could get a punching/kicking bag and workout on it... use your energy for good.
Hope you take this for what its worth, truthful advice that I really hope helps. Keeping it inside or venting on others will only make you more frustrated.
And take back your life... its yours afterall.
/shred