What is the most effective way to see a person's true personality?

The most effective ways to see a person's true personality is in 2 ways:

1. observe them in times of adversity (or high stress)

2. watch what they spend their money on

1.) I once had a coworker who best described would be something between Princess Diana and Hyacinth Bucket from the British series "Keeping up appearances". She'd carry herself with her nose up in the air, considering herself to be better than any of us, and would often tell anecdotes from her previous "very prestigious" job, insinuating that she is somebody, and we are nobodies.

Then one day she got herself a car, it wasn't new, but it made up for it in flashiness, and a certain "high quality" symbol on the front of the hood. She parked it in front of the office doors: once, so we wouldn't miss it going in, and second, so our low-life cars would not cramp the style of her 4-wheeled beauty.

At the end of the shift we all waked together to the parking lot, and............... her car wouldn't start! Golly, she jumped out, started yelling, cussing, throwing the F word left and right, kicking the tires and jumping up and down in anger like an insane person. That display was priceless! The mask was off, and we saw what's behind it, and let me tell you, it wasn't pretty! For those in our group who felt her belittling bite extra hard, it was like "Christmas in July".

2.) People spend their money on what they love most. If I were to look at your credit card statement, I could tell you right away where your life's priorities are (you can d that for yourself).
A person can tell you a thousand times that they have a big heart for the less fortunate, and their main charges are clothing, shoes, handbags and restaurants, believe the statement and not their words. ''For where your treasure (money) is, there your heart will be also''. So show me what kind of treasures you spend your money on, and I'll tell you what/who your true love is.

And that's how you take a peak behind the masks of a person, in order to see their true personality.

Cheers!

Angie


Source: https://www.quora.com/What-is-the-mo...ue-personality


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