Lets try it again "shall we?" -> I AM NOT A LIAR
DINAR FORUM PLACED ON HOLD TO WE GET THE RIGHT MOOD SET HERE FOR THE FURTURE!
ONLY ONE WAY OUT NOW..
A SOLUTION:..
ADMIN
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Admin
Hello
Congratulations to you all for having one of the members explain it to me they way one should have. Oldskiier and i had a chat on the phone.
His saying was that the main reason for this mess is that some members here post lies in the rumor section, and post it as if they are facts... LOL. that should not happen. This caused people to be tired of some individuals, while other supported the posters of such facts... Grouping started. And there you go... It was all on.
I did honestly not know that. No member, nor mod took the time to explain me this part. I was myself today frustrated with what the hell is going on???? Why are people so against each other?
I dont even know who is in what group here, and who is who.. This is mainly coz i am a medical student and cant be in the dinar section to clear such mess when it starts.
I sure hope now that a few of you could have told me about it once it started. Now is kind of hard to work with it, as when minds form, and one starts to dislike one other member due to reasons stated above, then it becomes very hard for the admin of the site to jump in 1 year later to clear the mess up.
Still those that were banned today were probably most frustrated members, like myself. But not respecting our TOS is not an option if you will want to stay a member of rolclub. I dont like to ban anyone.. How often have you ever seen me come into the dinar section and change anything? How often????????????????
My request to all is simple. Be fair,be honest, and drop the hate totally.... I know it will be hard, but for now i will monitor the rumor section daily myself. Some rumors can not contain a link or no proof once a while. But its not totally right to post rumor after rumor and not have any proof at all for your claims...
One way to look at it that work for me is that, i dont use to go to often into the rumor section. I like facts myself, and therefor do reading on the sections where the facts are. Rumors (lies) can be right or wrong, so its not exactly right of anyone to get mad about them in the first place.
Jealousy: Well some of us that like the facts would get jealous in sense of reading how well some rumor posters are doing.
Some would be mad coz these people spread "lies/rumors" to gain memberships trurst as the other party says...
It does not have to be totally-> jealousy, but reasons like people have invested lots of money in the dinar. They really count on the correct information to be posted....
Of 3 major dinar forums , i was explained that most rumors are posted on RC with no proof at all, am i right? That will have to stop.. You should try to have some kind of a real claim for your rumors to appear if you want most of the members to understand why you posted this, and gather support or whatever you want...
Its a hard issue to deal with now at this time when groups have been formed. But lets all try to not badmouth each other in this thread. Show respect for others, and try to come to what went wrong... Name calling will not be tolerated of any kind.
Please just calm down,and make your post so most of us understand and diffuse some tension, and see past the forumed groups, and get back to what we all want.. The information...
I honestly dont take any sides in this conflict. Nor do i want to see this conflict here any more on RC.
What i am offering here is all to raise their thoughts on what went wrong, and offer something in sense of how to solve the issues. The only side i will be taking in the end of the day is RC and our Rules.. Please dont break them, and all is cool.
I offer my apologies to those that had nothing to do with this, and still got caught up in the middle of this all. What i did was due to some hardliners having one ip of a member stolen through a mod, and using it wrong..
Best Regards
Admin
THE "I AM NOT A LIAR THREAD" has been removed by me! It's probably just posted due to frustration, and i don't want any such posts inn here anymore. The solution thread is here, and that is what we will focus much more on.
SGS: i didnt take oldskiier word for it. Because if that was what i was going to do, you would not even be able to return to this forum to post the last post you did... Are we clear on that?
The ONLY THING I DID WAS TO GET TO KNOW THEIR SIDE OF THE STORY,and then realize what seems to be the main reason every one is fighting here!!!!!!!!
AS THE ADMIN OF THIS FORUM. I DO HAVE THE RIGHT TO INVESTIGATE, AND TRY TO MAKE MY FORUM BETTER AT ANY GIVEN TIME, HERE AND IN SPACE!!!! LOL..
Nowhere in this post did i ever call you a liar sgs, so why do you react like you do????????? I just highlighted a few lines above from the text that is there for you to see what i am trying to do.
Now, you represent one part of this group. There are other side here as well.
Now how do you suggest we go about making a peace around here between the groups? any suggestions?
I have spoken to you on msn many times sgs. I think you know me better then that. And you know very well that i have always spoken to you about whats fair or not. NO BODY CALLED YOU A LIAR. NOR DID I TAKE THE WORD FROM ANYONE FOR IT. ALL I TRY TO DO NOW IS TO UNDERSTAND WHY GROUPS OF PEOPLE ARE SO AGAINST EACH OTHER, AND WILL DO ANYTHING TO GET THE ISSUES SOLVED!!!!
NEXT: the posts you call "crap", was two ways... They were feelings of people about how they see that these problems developed on RC.
Now, i expect all members to try to come to a solution, rather then Praising anyone from any group if you want peace around here..
This is not a forum for one specific group of people. Its for all. And i am here to try to solve the mess, and enforce RC rules..
Some can now think, hmmm i dont want any changes, i like how it is, then leave!!!!! can think of any other reason then that...
Most would however know that i will not let any sides make a mess on MY forum any more.... RC rules, or get out!!!!
Shall we again try to go about solving this issue here? Just this time, without any more of the "I am so disapointed that bla bla BS!". Your all grown up people i suppose. What do you do at home when you have a problem? Run or solve it? with your fam, kids, husbands, wifes, sons, daughters?..
ALL AND EVERYBODY CRY ABOUT HOW BAD THIS FORUM HAS BECOME. HOW DO YOU THINK I LIKE TO HEAR THAT? HOW MANY OF YOU EVER SAW ME COME INN HERE TO THE DINAR FORUM AND DO ANYTHING?
I have spent past 48h dealing with this forum. And improvements can be seen already. Its just not a place where i will let anyone do what they want any longer how you please.....
You can now either go to some other place, or try to fix the situations with me here, and this forum will again become a better place to be.
I place my bets on the last one.. I hope you do the same.
Admin
PS! DO NOT MAKE ANY KIND OF MESS INN HERE. I HAVE ENOUGH OF THIS, AND ANY TROUBLE MAKER WOULD SIMPLY BE REMOVED.
