Beard Washes

Hi guys,

I haven't seen a thread like this here, let me know if I've just missed it. So I've started growing a beard. There are so many questions, but I'll just start with this one. At the moment some hairs are about a cm long, others are up to three. The longer ones just stick outward (do you guy use some different beard wash shampoo or regular wash with the water) Also, I just stumble to these products https://www.geekwrapped.com/guides/best-beard-washes - Recommendations?

Also, do I just leave them like this? Will they eventually get heavy with length and fold down over the rest? I've read that you shouldn't touch your beard for at least a month while it's growing.

Your input is much appreciated. :)