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    An-Nawwas ibn Sam’aan reported that Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him said:
    "Righteousness is good character, and sin is whatever bothers you and you do not want people to know." (Saheeh Muslim)
    Hence one can say that Islam as a whole came to perfect good manners, as did the Prophet himself:
    "Indeed I was only sent to complete the most noble character traits." (Saheeh Muslim)

    As Islam is not a mere religion but a complete way of life, incorporating all of its various facets and aspects, good manners is actually regarded as a means of worship by which one may achieve the same reward of doing other more obvious voluntary acts of worship. The Prophet, may the mercy and blessings of God be upon him, stated:

    "Through his manners and good conduct, the believer can attain the status of a person who frequently fasts and prays at night." (Abu Dawud)
    Rather, the Prophet even stated it to be one of the best forms of worship, second to none but the obligatory mandates of Islam:
    "On the Day of Resurrection, nothing will be heavier in the scale (of good deeds) of the believer than good conduct. God hates the one who swears and hurls obscenities." (Abu Dawud, Al-Tirmidhi)

    Through maintaining good conduct, one becomes one of the beloved servants of God. The Prophet said:
    "The most beloved slaves of God to God are those who have the best manners." (Al-Hakim)
    When one realizes the importance of good character and its essentiality in defining righteousness, an aspect which is the goal of Islam, this exhorts Muslims to fulfill this aspect of faith as well, since one can not become "righteous" through mere belief and devotion to God in themselves without good character.

    But what is regarded as good character? We find that the Quran and Sunnah in various texts define it to be any trait that is beneficial to humans, both to oneself as well as to others, at the same time not being generally or specifically prohibited by Islam. For example, God says:
    "Those who suppress their anger, and forgive other people – assuredly, God loves those who do good." (Quran 3:134)
    Righteousness is dealing fairly, justly and politely with one’s family. The Prophet said:
    "The believers with the most perfect faith are those with the most perfect conduct and manners. And the best ones amongst you are those who are best to their families." (Al-Tirmidhi)


    Truthfulness is an essential aspect of good character which leads to Paradise. The Prophet said:
    "Indeed truthfulness is righteousness, and indeed righteousness leads to Paradise." (Saheeh Muslim)
    For this reason, we look to divine guidance in order to define for us good manners and character, exemplified by the Prophet,
    as God said:
    "Surely, you (O Muhammad) are upon a high standard of moral character." (Quran 68:4)
    God also said:
    "Indeed in the Messenger of God you have a beautiful example of conduct to follow…" (Quran 33:21)
    Aisha, the wife of the noble Prophet, was asked about his character. She replied:
    "His character was that of the Quran." (Saheeh Muslim, Abu Dawud)
    بطل كاراتيه أوروبي يسلم وينقذ عائلته الملحدة قصة أعجب من الخيال Karate champion becomes a Muslim

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    عباس ومسيحي منفعل آخر| Abbas & Another Emotional Christian

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jedI7KWh8uE
    مليونير كندي ترك كل شىء من أجل الاسلام ( الجزء الاول)

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v4RDOcwJj9s
    المليونير السويسري اعتنق الإسلام جزء 2 - YouTube

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    I believe that a lie that kills every relationship. I don't like cheating. I want that in return. I've been in a relationship for three years. I really love my boyfriend, but I have problems with him in sex. I can't have an orgasm... I'm not hiding this situation from him. We are talking about this. Now we are trying to diversify our sex life. We bought top selling sex toys for women. It's working! We are thinking to go together to the sexologist. I decided to tell you about it so you know that everything can be solved if we talk about it. Do you agree with me?

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    The right way is to marry a girl

    Not watching sex movies
    Before
    marriage or
    after

    Other than marriage
    Is called adultery


    Someone told me

    Victims of mixing… True story

    woman over the age of 40, tells her story.

    I lived a life of modest means with my husband. There was never any closeness and harmony, and my husband did not have the kind of strong personality that a woman would hope for, but his good nature made me overlook the fact that I was the one who was responsible for most of the decision making in the family.

    My husband often used to mention the name of his friend and business partner, and he would talk about him in my presence, and I often used to meet with him in his office which was originally part of our apartment. This went on for many years, until circumstances led to us exchanging visits with this person and his family. These family visits were repeated and because of his close friendship with my husband, we did not notice how the number of visits increased and how many hours a single visit would last. He often used to come on his own to sit with us, me and my husband, for long visits. My husband’s trust in him knew no bounds, and as days passed I got to know this person very well, and saw how wonderful and decent he was. I began to feel a strong attraction towards this man, and at the same time I began to sense that the feeling was mutual.

    Things took a strange turn after that, when I realized that this man was the kind of person I had always dreamed about. Why had he come along now, after all these years? The more this man’s status increased in my eyes, the more my husband’s status diminished. It was as if I had needed to see the beauty of his character in order to discover how ugly my husband’s character was.

    The matter between this person and myself did not go beyond these persistent thoughts which were occupying my mind night and day. Neither he nor I ever voiced what we felt in our hearts… until today. Yet despite that my life is over and my husband is little more than a weak man with no self-esteem. I hate him and I do not know how all this hatred towards him started to boil over. I wonder how I put up with him all these years, bearing all these burdens by myself, facing life’s problems on my own.

    Things got so bad that I asked him for a divorce, and he divorced me at my request. After that he became a broken man. Even worse than that is that after my marriage was wrecked and my children and husband were devastated, problems arose in this man's family. His wife, with her feminine intuition, realized what had been going on in his heart of hearts, and his life became hell. She was overwhelmed with jealousy to the extent that one night she left her house at 2 a.m. and came to attack my house, screaming, weeping and hurling accusations. His marriage was also about to collapse.

    I admit that the lovely gatherings which we used to enjoy gave us the opportunity to get to know one another at a time that was not appropriate at this stage in our lives.

    His marriage has been wrecked and so has mine. I have lost everything, and now I know that my circumstances and his will not permit us to take any positive step towards coming together. Now I am more miserable than I have ever been, and I am looking for illusionary happiness and lost hopes.

    \\\

    Recent studies confirm that porno scenes have destructive consequences on human’s psychological health also it has bad effects on people’s social status,



    Debate over the issue of pornography often starts with the assumption that it is harmful. In fact the US Attorney General's Commission on Pornography, the Surgeon General's workshop on Pornography, Public Health and many academic researchesdetermined that pornography is harmful.

    Sex issues are in chatting rooms

    In a new study, American researchers believe that growing numbers of married people are turning to internet chat rooms for sexual thrills.

    Most spouses who got involved with the opposite sex over the internet did not think they were doing anything wrong, said the report by a University of Florida researcher.But partners felt betrayed even though in most cases no physical contact had taken place.

    "The internet will soon become the most common form of infidelity, if it isn't already," said Beatriz Mileham, from the University of Florida, who carried out the new study.

    According to counseling groups in the US, Chat rooms are today the fastest rising cause of relationship breakdowns.

    “The problem would get worse as the number of people online continued to rise” said MsMileham.

    Researchers found that most people ventured into the chat rooms because of boredom, a partner's lack of sexual interest, or a desire for variety and fun.

    The study found that what often started out as just friendly chat turned into something much more serious.

    "We are hearing from therapists around the country reporting online sexual activity to be a major cause of marital problems," said Al Cooper, author of the book, Sex and the Internet: A Guidebook for Clinicians.

    "We need to better understand the contributing factors if we are going to be able to warn people about the slippery slope that starts with online flirting and too often ends in divorce. “Added AL cooper.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tUIUvznz5jU

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    JEWS

    Jews are no exception and consumption of alcohol is prohibited for them also. According to Mosaic Law no fermented beverages are allowed during the Passover feast.

    “Seven days you shall eat unleavened bread; On the first day you shall put away leaven out of your houses, for if any one eats what is leavened, from the first day until the seventh day, that person shall be cut off from Israel.”

    Exodus 12: 15 (RSV)

    “Seven days you shall eat unleavened bread, and on the seventh day there shall be a feast to the Lord. Unleavened bread shall be eaten for seven days; no leavened bread shall be seen with you, and no leaven shall be seen with you in all territory.”

    Exodus 13: 6-7 (RSV)

    As we can see there is no mention of wine or any fermented drinks in the Mosaic Law cited above.

    Bacchiocchi (Ibid) supports the view that Jews are prohibited from drinking alcohol and he says “The Talmud prohibits drinking alcohol to the accompaniment of musical instruments at festive occasions such as weddings. This prohibition is confirmed by later testimony of the rabbis. For example S.M. Isaac, an eminent nineteenth-century rabbi and editor of The Jewish Messenger says, “ The Jews do not, in their feasts for sacred purposes, including the marriage feast, ever use any kind of fermented drinks. In their oblations and libations, both private and public they employ the fruit of the is, fresh grapes-unfermented grape juice, and raisins, as the symbol of benediction. Fermentation is to them always a symbol of corruption." Though Rabbi Isaac's statement is not quite accurate, since Jewish sources are not unanimous on the kind of wine to be used at sacred festivals, it still does indicate that some Jews used unfermented wine at wedding feasts.

    هل مات المسيح من أجل خطايانا؟ - د. لورنس براون
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    . محامي أمريكي إذا أردت الأمان لعائلتك فجاور مسلم

    حمزة يتعامل مع الأسئلة الفضولية | Hamza Deals with Curious Questions

    امرأة فرنسية تبكي بعد إعتناقها الإسلام


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    Intoxication risks

    Intoxication is the most common cause of alcohol-related problems, leading to injuries and premature deaths. As a result, intoxication accounts for two-thirds of the years of life lost from drinking. Alcohol is responsible for:

    30% of road accidents
    44% of fire injuries
    34% of falls and drownings
    16% of child abuse cases
    12% of suicides
    10% of industrial accidents

    As well as deaths, short-term effects of alcohol result in illness and loss of work productivity (e.g. hangovers, drink driving offences). In addition, alcohol contributes to criminal behaviour - in Australia over 70% of prisoners convicted of violent assaults have drunk alcohol before committing the offence and more than 40% of domestic violence incidents involve alcohol.
    Long-term effects

    Each year approximately 3000 people die in Australia as a result of excessive alcohol consumption and around 65 000 people are hospitalised. Long-term excessive alcohol consumption is associated with:

    heart damage
    high blood pressure and stroke
    liver damage
    cancers of the digestive system
    other digestive system disorders (e.g. stomach ulcers)
    sexual impotence and reduced fertility
    increasing risk of breast cancer
    sleeping difficulties
    brain damage with mood and personality changes
    concentration and memory problems

    In addition to health problems, alcohol also impacts on relationships, finances, work, and may result in legal problems.
    Tolerance and Dependence

    A regular drinker may develop tolerance and dependence. Tolerance means that they feel less effect than they used to with the same amount of alcohol. Dependence means that the alcohol becomes central in their life - a lot of time is spent thinking about alcohol, obtaining it, consuming it and recovering from it. The person will find it difficult to stop drinking or to control the amount consumed.
    Withdrawal

    Someone who is physically dependent on alcohol will experience withdrawal symptoms when they stop drinking or substantially reduce their intake. Symptoms usually commence 6-24 hours after the last drink, last for about 5 days and include:

    tremor
    nausea
    anxiety
    depression
    sweating
    headache
    difficulty sleeping (may last several weeks)

    Alcohol withdrawal can be very dangerous; people drinking more than 8 standard drinks a day are advised to discuss a decision to stop drinking with a doctor as medical treatment may be required to prevent complications.
    The Mother of Every Evil

    One day, as he came out from his mosque, the Prophet Muhammad, may God send praises upon him, noticed his cousin and son-in-law, Ali b. Abi Talib, visibly upset. When the concerned Prophet asked Ali what was troubling him, Ali simply pointed to the bloody carcass of his dearly cherished camel - no ordinary camel, but the war-weathered camel that Ali would mount in his valiant defense of the Prophet and Islam on the battlefield. Ali told the Prophet that one of their uncles had been responsible for the unsanctioned slaughter of his animal, and so the Prophet went to ascertain his (i.e. the uncle's) side of the story.

    Entering in the presence of his uncle, the Prophet found him drunk with wine. Upon seeing the displeasure in his nephew's face, the uncle knew at once, despite his intoxication, that the Prophet had come to question him about Ali's beast of war. With nothing good to say in his defense, the guilt-ridden, drunken uncle blurted out to his nephew: "You and your father are my slaves!" The Prophet's only response to the blasphemous outburst was to exclaim: "Truly, alcohol is the mother of every evil!"

    And so, from the biography of the Prophet Muhammad we learn a weighty lesson as regards the colossal and evil consequences of alcoholic drink. Any one of the alcohol-inspired acts in this short episode from the blessed Prophet's life would suffice the reader as an admonition: whether it be the culling of Ali's camel, the drunken state of an uncle of a Prophet of God - let alone His last and final messenger to mankind - or the wicked insult he ****ed out against him and his own


    deceased brother, who was no less than the father of the Prophet of God. How much worse then when we consider all these crimes together? Not to mention the many evils indirectly resulting from the uncle's consumption of the alcohol, such as the loss to the Muslim community of one its battle-hardened steeds of war, or the pain, anguish and, perhaps, embarrassment that Muhammad must have felt at this tragic family affair. No doubt, it was precisely because the Prophet recognized that it was the alcohol that gave birth to and nurtured all these foul sins that he denounced it as: "the mother of every evil!"


    داعية مسلم يشرح لفتاة غير مسلمة الإسلام لقرابة ساعتين دون أن تقاطعه الجزء الاول
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=czmDPAHzg9o


    داعية مسلم يشرح لفتاة غير مسلمة الإسلام لقرابة ساعتين دون أن تقاطعه الجزء الثانى
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nRantJkyJUw


    داعية مسلم يشرح لفتاة غير مسلمة الإسلام لقرابة ساعتين دون أن تقاطعه الجزء الثالث
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uh9AOtIiDgE


    داعية مسلم يشرح لفتاة غير مسلمة الإسلام لقرابة ساعتين دون أن تقاطعه الجزء الرابع
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cV-lAJXA0C8


    داعية مسلم يشرح لفتاة غير مسلمة الإسلام لقرابة ساعتين دون أن تقاطعه الجزء الخامس
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RDARqBr1eFE

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    someone told me

    One could make a fairly good case that drinking alcoholic beverages, IF DONE TO BECOME INEBRIATED, is morally unacceptable

    My family tree is riddled with alcoholics. My father died of liver disease, my sister is a lifelong alcoholic, and my son learned as a teenager that he cannot stop drinking once he has that first drink - so he doesn't have it. I never developed a taste for alcohol and at 66, I know I never will. Thank God.

    الشيخ احمد ديدات مقابل الدكتور فلويد كلارك ( هل صلب المسيح ؟ )
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    "O ye who believe! Strong drinks and games of chance and idols and divining of arrows are only an infamy of Satan's handiwork. Leave them aside in order that ye may succeed. Satan seeketh only to cast among you enmity and hatred by means of strong drinks and games of chance, and turn you from remembrance of Allah and from His worship. So will ye not then abstain?" (5:90-91)

    Abdullah bin Umar related that the Prophet(pbuh) said: "Do not sit together with drinkers, nor visit them when they are sick. Do not even attend their funerals. The drinkers of alcohol shall come on the Last Day with black faces, their tongues leaning on one side and sliva coming out of their mouths. Anyone who sees their filthy appearance will know that they were the drinkers of alcohol."
    red wine
    Jabir reported the Messenger of Allah as saying "If a large amount of anything causes intoxication, a small amount of it is also prohibited.

    Yea there maybe some good in it but look at the bigger picture. It is stated in the Qur’ân: “They ask you regarding wine and gambling. Say, in both of them is major sin, and there is some benefit for men, but the sin of them is far greater than benefit ” (Surah Baqarah)

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    thanks for sharing

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    Quote Originally Posted by MonicaSp View Post
    thanks for sharing
    thank you


    The wine of the Hereafter is pure; it neither intoxicates nor harms. It is the wine of this world only that intoxicates, harms, and confuses. All of the direct and indirect harms associated with the wine of this world are non-existent in the wine of the next life.

    Praise be to Allaah.

    Allaah, may He be exalted, describes the wine of the Hereafter as being different from the wine of this world. He says (interpretation of the meaning):

    “Round them will be passed a cup of pure wine —

    46. White, delicious to the drinkers.

    47. Neither will they have Ghoul (any kind of hurt, abdominal pain, headache, a sin) from that nor will they suffer intoxication therefrom”

    [al-Saaffaat 37-47]

    So Allaah describes the wine of the Hereafter as:

    1. white

    2. delicious to the drinkers, unlike the wine of this world which is distasteful when drunk

    3. having no “ghoul” (hurt, abdominal pain, headache, a sin) in it, which is what affects one who drinks it in this world, of headache, pain in the stomach and loss of reason. In Soorat al-Waaq’iah it says: “Wherefrom they will get neither any aching of the head” [56:19], i.e., they will not get a headache from it.

    4. “nor will they suffer intoxication therefrom”, unlike the wine of this world which causes them to lose their minds.

    See: Tafseer Soorat al-Saaffaat by Shaykh Ibn ‘Uthaymeen, p. 107-109.

    Shaykh ‘Abd al-‘Azeez ibn Baaz (may Allaah have mercy on him) said:

    The wine of the Hereafter is good, and does not cause any intoxication or harm. As for the wine of this world, it is harmful and causes intoxication. In other words, in the wine of the Hereafter there is no ghawl (intoxication) and the one who drinks it will not become intoxicated; it does not cause him to lose his mind and it does not cause physical harm. As for the wine of this world, it is harmful to mind and body alike. None of the harmful effects in the wine of this world will be found in the wine of the Hereafter. And Allaah is the source of strength.

    islam and wine - YouTube

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wXHSvO2yaUg

    The Qur'an Says ...

    Desires Met The afterlife of Muslims will be a place where all their desires are not only met but exceeded (50:35).

    Endless Fountain of Wine The righteous will drink from a endlessly flowing fountain of wine, which is mixed with Kafur water (76:5-6). It will be a white wine that will not intoxicate those in the Garden of Bliss (37:45-47).




    This simple
    Does not require much thinking
    - Paradise is quite different from the life of the world
    God wants to honor Adam sons
    Give him extra strength and lasting youth and happy life does not end with the wives and virgins

    This is a blessing and a gift from God to Adam sons
    After enduring all the hardships and difficulties faced in the life of the world
    God says in the Holy Qur'an
    19. Then as for him who will be given his Record in his right hand will say: "Take, read my Record!
    20. "Surely, I did believe that I shall meet my Account!"
    21. So he shall be in a life, well-pleasing.
    22. In a lofty Paradise,
    23. The fruits in bunches whereof will be low and near at hand.
    24. Eat and drink at ease for that which you have sent on before you in days past!
    ا

    Paradise
    In the inside
    All things that have been deprived of them in this world
    Result
    Implementation of the orders of God

    This is the compensation for the patient and away from sin

    You can imagine as you like
    However you can not reach a real beauty
    Procreation

    But not pregnancy, fatigue and hardship

    The easy way

    Be

    he will be

    (When We decree a thing, We only say: 'Be, ' and it is.)
    40 Surah An-Nahl

    ماذا سوف يحدث عندما يعود المسيح؟ Joshua Evans - YouTube


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